As I sit here thinking back over the last two weeks, I realize that I learned some very valuable lessons that I might not have learned if I didn't do this experiment.
The first lesson I learned on day 1 was about being myself no matter what. I was so nervous to go out dressed "different" from the norm. I was worried people would stare, giggle, or think I was weird or different. But you know what? I am different and so are you. We are all different, unique, and special. As the time went by, I was less and less self-conscience about how I was dressed and looked. Now that the experiment is over, I've actually started to like the style I developed for this project. I might just keep alittle of the kitschy, retro 50s style. Because I shouldn't get my self-worth from what others think about me, but from God who made me just like He wanted me to be.
Another thing I learned is that doing things to please others gave me pleasure. Many people think the 50s housewife was beaten down and bogged down with trying to please her husband but has anyone thought that maybe she enjoyed doing things for him? I found that the more I did for Jim and the kids and saw the look of appreciation on their faces, the happier I was. It makes me wonder who those people are that say you get the most happiness by looking out for yourself above others? Maybe no one ever did anything for them just to show that they loved them... or maybe they never did anything for someone else "just because". Either way, I think they are wrong. You cannot manufacture your own joy by being focused on yourself only. We were designed and created by God to put others first. There in lies true bliss.
I'm sure I'll be back with more reflection and lessons later as I reflect more on this project. Now I'm off to check Facebook, play Candy Crush, text my friends, all while running the dishwasher! Just kidding... partly! Tootles!
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